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Sorry did not know there was a way to open the articles and comment and mistakenly thought otherwise . On the positive side, I love how in depth your articles articulate the differences between a one and done and developing an intimacy with a person open minded to sharing their thoughts and letting their personality be a precursor and not just a shallow body evaluation.

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Yeah, I reread the article and it is striking how you seemed to describe for me the overlap between marriage, intimacy, and spirituality as really an interconnected golden web of connection in all it's forms. That is what all of it is about in my opinion - the different forms and layers of honest connection. Well being and inspiration is tied to all of those expressions of honest, vulnerable connection.🥰

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And we just don't seem to have enough, right? Maybe because we're so task/goal focused, so we lose opportunities for depth.

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I can relate to that - I get focused to the point of obsession on whatever I am attempting to accomplish... And then I tend to take for granted the little things inbetween that need attention in my marriage... And expect everything to stand at the ready for me when I am ready for attention and intimacy... Not sure if that is what you were driving at. 🤪 Ok, and adding that yeah come to think of it, I am constantly hungry for more connection - different types of connection. I think I just need to remember that there are other types of connection that are very satisfying - it doesn't just need to be sexual/intimacy connection.

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