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Mark Mandel's avatar

Great writing!

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Desiree McCullough's avatar

Thanks, Mark! It was a highlight experience last year.

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Mark Mandel's avatar

I’ve never been there, but I’m a hot/cold springs fan from way back. So I’ll be sure to check it out. Last summer I spent a lot of time at Harbin Hot Springs in Lake county, California. Another swimsuit optional place that’s been around since the late 1800s.

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Bill Wirth's avatar

I love how you write and your sense of humor and vulnerability. I had the shittiest year of my life in 2024, but have the attitude 2025 is a new me. Reading this and your journey somehow gives me the faith it can happen with the right attitude and willingness to be vulnerable. Thank you for the extra nudge. Still trying to figure it out at 67.

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Desiree McCullough's avatar

That's definitely my approach, Bill. Humor, vulnerability, and not being ashamed in the midst of discovery. I'm happy we still have the desire and courage to "figure it out."

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Laurie Bunker's avatar

I'm really enjoying your writing. Thank you for sharing your journey with us! Had to laugh at "eco tech" per the hand towels. That's what America used to have in restrooms before the paper towel filled versions came along. I'd forgotten all about em.

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Desiree McCullough's avatar

Laurie, thank you for your kind words! It's definitely been a journey of trying to figure it all out. With the ebbs and flows, I'm learning a lot about my body and comfort.

(And those hand towels dispensers kept jamming! 🥲)

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William Foster's avatar

Facinating. You're a hell of a writer, DGAF snark and all.

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Desiree McCullough's avatar

Thanks, William. After so much time stifling myself, it's freeing to give my honest commentary.

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Stephen Duskin's avatar

Isn't shared public nudity a liberating experience? Sheding so many issues along with the clothes. Sounds like you had fun! Excpet for that lousy checkout experience.

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Desiree McCullough's avatar

It was so normal and provoked vulnerability in conversation. It was like a balm I needed, Stephen.

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jen harrington's avatar

Reading this, I really felt like I was there. I could see Mr good old days and the maze that wasn’t much of a maze… and feel it leaving its mark on you. Sounds like it was a much needed rest from evolving all the time. Thank you for sharing.

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Desiree McCullough's avatar

Thanks, Jen. It really was a much needed rest. Just trying to keep the rest and steady momentum going.

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Desiree McCullough's avatar

Thanks. Would love to go again but with someone. Hopefully, one day.

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