Thanks, ASD. ☺️ In the beginning, I was overwhelmed and moved too fast. (I was the one constantly bringing the spark with lackluster results/partners.) Around summer of last year, I started to slow down, and then when I started seeing my therapist in March, I slowed down BUT with thoughtfulness and an implementation of boundaries. I'm content and enjoying the process.
Why is a strong initial contact needed to have a sexual encounter? I understand wanting to be safe, not abused and even someone with a brain, in the upper head. Why so much doubt in your own ability to be the sensible, sensitive, sensual sexual woman? You train in burlesque, and from what you impart to your readers, you're quite accomplished at it. Your therapist has even suggested the extra curriculum to put your theories and desire to good use what is keeping your feet from dipping into the proverbial pool? Are you really thinking that a cerebral or even a heart felt connected encounter will be the ultimate highlight of this search? Be a woman with needs and desires experiment and see what safely looks like a possible cork reliever. Then go for YOUR unicorn. I say this with love and respect have fun then search for the Golden Fleece.
As someone who has also struggled to find my wants and desires, I love following your journey.
Thanks, ASD. ☺️ In the beginning, I was overwhelmed and moved too fast. (I was the one constantly bringing the spark with lackluster results/partners.) Around summer of last year, I started to slow down, and then when I started seeing my therapist in March, I slowed down BUT with thoughtfulness and an implementation of boundaries. I'm content and enjoying the process.
Why is a strong initial contact needed to have a sexual encounter? I understand wanting to be safe, not abused and even someone with a brain, in the upper head. Why so much doubt in your own ability to be the sensible, sensitive, sensual sexual woman? You train in burlesque, and from what you impart to your readers, you're quite accomplished at it. Your therapist has even suggested the extra curriculum to put your theories and desire to good use what is keeping your feet from dipping into the proverbial pool? Are you really thinking that a cerebral or even a heart felt connected encounter will be the ultimate highlight of this search? Be a woman with needs and desires experiment and see what safely looks like a possible cork reliever. Then go for YOUR unicorn. I say this with love and respect have fun then search for the Golden Fleece.
Definitely don't have the doubt. Better experiences come out of greater substance. Not selling myself short anytime soon. 😁